Is love a rocket science?

Why do most of us struggle, when it comes to love? Is loving someone a difficult task? Does it involve a lot of analysis to love? Do we need any reason to love? Why is it tough to maintain the love we have towards someone forever? Should we love someone only if we are sure of receiving it back from them?

Now a days we all effortlessly say we love someone, be it husband, wife, siblings, friends, parents etc. eventually the emotion which we feel for that person diminishes for various reasons like; when the love is not reciprocated, when the quality you like the most in him/her is not seen anymore, when the person you love hurts you, when the person you love doesn’t make you feel important, when the person you love loses his/her beauty and so on.

But when we activate all our senses to understand this aspect of “PURE LOVE”, the question that we need to answer ourselves is, does “love” have a basis? Is love a materialistic approach or an idealistic approach? Let us make a sincere effort to understand the meaning of true love.  

The purest form of love on this planet Earth is the love of a mother towards her child. It is the most uncomplicated manifestation of love. A mother possesses this passionate and ardent feeling of affection, care and concern towards her child irrespective of its gender, beauty, character, success, failure or any such conditions or criteria. She loves her child since its conception and until her last breathe with the same intensity. Loving her child with all her heart is the sole intention of a mother and she feels satiated and contented not intending to test whether she is receiving the same love back from her child and that’s what we call as the most unadulterated feeling of affection.

However mother’s love is indisputable, also unanimously said to be the purest form of love and the same can never be plagiarized between siblings, husband-wife, best friends, men-women etc., but we can still keep it as the benchmark and try our best to love everyone with utmost purity and sincerity. 

We can now say that “Love” is an undefinable, sacred feeling involving absolutely no complexities. “Love” is not "an intense feeling of liking towards something" because it is perfect; it is the deep, uncontrollable emotion which is developed in spite of all the imperfections. True love involves liking someone unconditionally. Love is not a decision to think about the pros and cons and then feel it, True love is an involuntary feeling which develops within oneself towards someone naturally and this is the kind of love that lasts forever and does not involve any kind of an effort to maintain it throughout as it becomes an irreversible emotion that will in no occasion recede.

In this world, everything happens for a definite reason. Whereas “Love” is that one magical feeling which is developed absolutely with no reason at all. It is the feeling of sheer freedom and eternal bliss. To love truly is to omit the impurities from the self and radiate a pure sense of passion towards someone.

“Love” is a priceless emotion flowing freely like a river which doesn’t have the origin and an end. It is the most valuable treasure which the Almighty has bestowed upon the mankind whose purity cannot be traded with anything at all.

Let us now put an end to spreading the adulterated, impure, conditional and materialist form of love but adore and cherish this glorious emotion in its purest form and share it across in abundance with one another, as it only gets doubled when shared.

Love can never be a rocket science but more simple than a cake walk when manifested in its purest and truest form.

A simple thought to live well

Feeling loved might be hard, but to “love” is the easiest.